(socially appropriate, non-crass techniques to ask chicks to fall asleep with you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” was initially our ‘idea’, the good news is it really is mainstream!
While you both read Good Looking Loser if you are home on this Saturday night, it better be with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you. I invested way too many Saturday evenings in the home in my own 20’s. I be sorry too.
If you can’t speak to girls during the night, simply venture out and view if you’re able to make eye contact (+ look) with girls or get watch other dudes communicate with random girls have a look at our program. Even though you do not state a term the whole time – it is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy weblog.
I did so a video clip (see below) and was not planning to perform a post with this ‘common sense’ subject but I made a decision it had been a good indisputable fact that everybody else see this.
Dudes that “research” sex/dating in the Web frequently experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up throughout their interactions or have no idea how to find down in which the girls appears.
They also have drawn in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good Looking Loser is really responsible for reversing.
I’m certain you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Sex” or “Will You have intercourse if they will sleep with him with me?” viral YouTube videos where a guy asks 100 girls. Frequently he asks issue while the very initial thing he says.
As an example –
(do not bother viewing these in full)
The girls see the camera, in some cases not in some cases. That doesn’t really matter.
The outcome are identical in most the videos -
>98% of this girls state “No.”
Here you will find the two means –
Dining Table bangbros free view at https://redtube.zone/category/bangbros/ of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will ALWAYS get you further, faster)
4:15 “could you want to get together for a glass or two ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to suggest it really is a romantic date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical issues – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cold approach
7:25 “can you want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should visit therefore we’ll view a film .”
8:20 “Normal” guys that Get Laid a great deal use each of these ALL THE TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking questions” is wrong.
11:20 A note on exactly how much “game” actually matters.
12:00 which can be better? Verbal or physical stuff?
12:45 ways to get faster with all the physical stuff.
15:00 Use both: ask girl to generally meet for a drink, then her to come over for a movie/drink.
number 1 Offer to generally meet for a glass or two
(“You need to grab a drink tonight? Lets do this.”)
This idea, among guys that obtain a lot of pussy, may be the solitary most utilized line within the reputation for the world.
Every girl when you look at the world (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend material) understands this really is an invite for future intercourse.
It’s the universal, courteous, socially appropriate invite for sex.
If you are wanting to get Laid, this is certainly a better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she begins taking a look at you as a possible boyfriend and withholds her pussy before you are emotionally invested which means you do not think she is a slut.
Even the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s most likely just trying to get me drunk”, will ironically totally allow you to do this – if they’re sexually available and DTF.
Lots of guys are scared to utilize this proposition as it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
That is absurd, the wish to be creative/witty is actually insecurity and social inexperience.
(i am there, trust in me)
Other people are frightened that girls will think “this person would like to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT THINK THAT.
Just trust me on this 1 too.
A DTF woman will likely not ignore a courteous invite to have a beverage if she likes you with you.
We completely encourage you to definitely utilize this proposition EVERYTIME before you are taking a woman’s quantity.
no. 2 Offer to view a Movie/Hangout (at your house)
(“the trend is to drop by and we’ll grab/watch a movie and hang out?” tonight)
If “grabbing a drink” may be the no. 1 idea of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It may be # 1 actually, this is exactly what everybody else who Gets Laid in university uses if they aren’t at events.
(but it is often the ‘after party’ pretense)
Like the proposition that is prior girls understand “watch a film” to be an invite for intercourse (or at the very least some kind of messing around).
The”watch a movie/hangout” proposition is socially acceptable, polite and not too forward like”getting a drink.
Possibly it’s apparent you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (hang out) rather than “see a film” or “go to a movie” (date).
Make that clear.
(it frequently is if you state “hangout”)
The invite is really a socially appropriate excuse for your ex to come over and mess around – at ANY TIME.
On a more traditional date) you can use this pretense to get the girl to come over afterward if you are “getting a drink” with a girl (or find yourself.
All girls understand what this means.
Girls know this and will come over looking way hotter than when they had been just likely to view a film.
A “movie/hangout” could be the universal socially appropriate method for getting a girl to come over, but these alternatives are acceptable too -
Come over and then we’ll chill.
Come over and now we’ll earn some food and possess some drinks.
Come over and we’ll just chill within the tub that is hot.
Come over and now we’ll smoke weed.
Come over and now we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are not really necessary after you have fucked the lady and this woman is your fuckbuddy (simply tell/ask her to come over) – but can be useful.
You certainly do not need virtually any pretenses compared to those 2.
How/Why Performs This “Work”!?
Considering that the woman likes you and really wants to have intercourse with you.
She is often simply awaiting the opportunity to do this.
Ideally, the lady should ALREADY FULLY KNOW what you are actually looking (intercourse, not a gf) for whenever she is met by you, however these propositions will leave without doubt.
Because of this after you meet them that I don’t believe in garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls. Even in the small instances where it might appear to function, it really is scarcely efficient and it’s likely that – your ex ALREADY liked you.
The next occasion you wish to communicate (verbally) you want to rest along with her and want to know where she appears – just recommend a “drink” or “movie/hangout”.
You will get your answer.
Although we encourage, real screening (just a little goes quite a distance, specially through the day), this sort of “verbal assessment” is a great method to get to the idea if you’ren’t comfortable being real with girls.
(nevertheless – attempt to get confident with it, spoken testing won’t ever be as good as physical assessment + little talk)
Once per week, somebody asks ways to get a lady to come over or wonders the way in which to step up a “hang out” instead of a romantic date.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
It’s likely that – you’ve got recently been Getting Laid and ideally this tangled up some loose ends.
If it absolutely wasn’t commonsense, at this point you have actually the CORRECT reply to -
Just What do I do to generally meet (rather than date) a woman?
It is as simple as it gets and when a woman likes you – she’s going to jump in the possiblity to obtain a drink/movie and chill to you.